Notwithstanding Angry Kittens: Surprise 

It’s amazing what we do or don’t do out of fear. Nine times out of ten the worst case scenario is ending up exactly where we are now. The only lasting change will be wisdom; forgiveness is granted; embarrassment fades; the what ifs are imagined; hearts don’t actually break.

So, apply for the job; stand up for yourself; show affection; make the tough decisions; ask for what you want; accept love.